Chad and I were friends before we ever dated. Love at first sight is not really love at all. You have to get to know a person before you can really love them. It would be very difficult to die for someone you didn't know. Jesus died for us because he truly loved us.
I can't imagine a marriage without friendship. Married couples spend so much time together, and it would be tragic if the time wasn't spent with your very best friend. Don't lose your friendship with your husband.
If you feel your friendship is lacking with your husband then make it a priority to spend special time together talking, listening, and having fun together. Don't let your girl friends become the only best friends you have. Friendship is very important in a marriage.
...and have a little fun!
John 15:13 (The Message)
This is my command: Love one another the way I have loved you. This is the very best way to love. Put your life on the line for your friends.